[00:00:00] Today we are talking about harnessing your inner magnetism, vibrating confidence, and attracting abundance. So in our last episode we talked about why it was so important for you to be able to shift your identity and how that affects who you are. your reality, how it affects your energy, your actions, and the boundaries you create for yourself.
And today we are going to talk about the how. So if you didn't watch the first part, I will leave it in the description so you can go check that out. But today we are going to be talking about how are we doing this? Do you want to feel more connected to your body? Do you want to leave behind the days of self criticizing and begin to admire yourself, embody that confidence, that self love for who you are today?
Do you want to feel more fulfilled in your relationships, in your career? Do [00:01:00] you want to have true, authentic expression, who you are, how you show up, how you dress, do you just want to feel like your insides match the outsides, match your beliefs, match your feelings, match the words that you say, so that there is true alignment?
to create prosperity in your life in a way that just feels aligned, you're following your soul's path, then this is definitely the episode that you want to stick around for, because I'm going to be giving you some insights on how you can begin to do this. Number one is surrender.
Surrender doesn't mean being out of control, but it is surrendering to the present moment. It's surrendering to what is happening now in a way that you're not reactive, but you are in acceptance.
. Surrendering to the idea and belief that there is a bigger plan for you. That you are exactly [00:02:00] where you need to be. That all of the gifts that you have are exactly what you need to accomplish what you're here to accomplish. Like you are here to inspire others, very specific people, not everyone, but the people that are going to resonate with the vibration, with the frequency that you are in.
Emitting. So that's what we're talking about when we talk about vibrating confidence. It's vibrating your unique authentic code, your frequency. And the only way you can really do that is if you begin to surrender and a big part of surrender is understanding the difference and the harmony between masculine and feminine energy.
So many of us are in this masculine energy of doing, strategy, drive, action. And it is taking a lot of women and it is making us sick. It is making us. in our heads and completely [00:03:00] ignoring the feminine. And so what I would invite you to do is allow yourself to experiment with allowing the feminine to lead.
The feminine is about receptivity. It's about intuition. It's being. It's going with the flow. It's softness. It's the slowing down. It's in the pause. It's in creativity. And when you allow yourself to pause and go slower and be more in the moment and be more in your body and listen to music that just makes you feel alive and in your body or you allow yourself to do what you're feeling in the moment and then the masculine can come in and support those intuitive feelings.
It reminds me of a client , she was expressing how she felt like prior to us working together, she was very in her masculine. She even neglected or rejected her [00:04:00] feminine. , as a transformation and embodiment coach, I help women reclaim their power by transforming that self abandonment, that rejection and transforming it into self expression by embracing the distinct, essence of who they are
and embodying their most confident, authentic, magnetic self. And that includes the feminine. Any part that we're rejecting, we want to bring to the surface and we want to honor it. About attracting abundance in a way that only we can and the way that only we can is by being authentic being exactly who we're meant to be, including the parts that we're rejecting that feminine part.
She's like, I was so in my masculine and I would do do do, I was all about strategy and action but then she says, but now I feel like I've swung to the other side.
Where I'm so embodied and I'm so in the moment, I'm listening to my intuition and things are falling into place and [00:05:00] I'm able to really be present. And it's so exciting that I just feel like everything is just happening. The synchronicities that happen when you are 100 percent being authentic and following your passion.
And I said, what if I told you. That you are not swinging so far to the feminine side now, but you are actually completely in harmony because even though she was very much following her passion and being present and listening to her body in a way that she's never been able to do before.
She's always over read things with her mind. I should be doing this. I should be exercising like this. I should be doing this work, but allowing to tap back into the intuition and tap into feeling and being is guided her to this whole new path in life. And let's just say, she's been going through a lot recently, but she's also taking the action.
She's Moving across the country and she's starting these new adventures And I said I want you to sit with this and go how good does it feel to be in [00:06:00] your feminine? to allow the creativity and the possibilities and the flow and being present and and Admiring and loving your body and listening to those Intuitive hits but realizing that you were also taking the action the action just doesn't feel as resistant It doesn't feel like hustle like you're used to because before you were allowing the masculine to lead and now you're doing it in a way that is going to fill your cup and increase your energy because you are allowing the feminine to lead and the masculine to take all of its power of drive and execution and strategy.
an action, but you're allowing it to support the feminine insights. This is called the aligned action. This is called inspired action. How do you really harness your inner magnetism? You vibrate at that really high confidence and you begin to attract abundance. You want to, um, Allow yourself to understand the difference and then follow the feminine.
Allow the feminine to lead your [00:07:00] masculine. Another thing that we want to be able to do is we want to overcome the fear and the beliefs. We want to overcome the fear that you have to hustle all the time. You want to be able to overcome the fear of failure. You want to make sure all the actions you're taking are coming from a place of authentic expression, where you leave behind the judgment or the rejection.
When we move in life and we take our actions out of fear, you're going to be vibrating really low, like we said in the last podcast. So right now there's a lot of fear going on and This will never lead you to where you want to go. You are not going to be able to open up possibilities when you are leading with fear.
We want to lead with love. This is a higher frequency. This is what's going to call in your abundance. This is what's going to call in the cosmic [00:08:00] synchronicities. And just so you know, if you follow whether it's human design or gene keys or astrology, the year 2027 is huge because we're bringing in this new era.
In these next two years, you are going to experience energy speeding up. Your manifestations, the things you desire, what you focus on, is going to accelerate.
I started to research energy and the shifts that are going to be happening back in 2020, I realized that in 2027, there was going to be a huge energetic shift, a huge awakening, the biggest awakening that we have ever experienced here on Earth. And everything was going to start speeding up in 2025,
so it's very interesting that everything that's happening right now politically and how everything is lining up use this as a permission slip of, do you want to be in this 3d? Do you want to be in a world that is mirroring your fear? [00:09:00] The biggest problem when it comes to creating change in your life or your reality, or even the world is that when you're vibrating low, you're not going to be able to create the change you want to create, you must vibrate higher.
You must move more towards love to create those changes. \
This is your opportunity to be introspective and to look within and go, how am I moving throughout the world? What kind of action am I taking? Am I taking action out of love or am I taking it out of fear? If I knew everything was going to turn out to my highest timeline. If everything is happening for me rather than to me, if every single lesson that was coming to me right now was an opportunity, a challenge to overcome, to learn something, something that is going to help my soul evolve, for me to become more expansive versus, Contracted
do I have a crush on this decision? Am I excited to do the things that [00:10:00] I am doing? This is your opportunity, wherever you are in your life right now, whatever stage you're at to take action from a place of love. Love of possibilities and knowing in the next two years that the energy is going to speed up.
And so whatever you're focusing on, however, you're vibrating, it's going to come to you quicker. So do you want to enter this new era at the 3D or the 5D? This is going to be completely up to you and how you choose to move through the world. Focus on abundance, not lack. What do you have to give? What are you What do you want to create?
No amount of fear or standing in your victimization or blaming others is going to bring you to your highest frequency, is going to attract abundance, is going to help you create your highest timeline and help you step into your highest version. [00:11:00] No amount of fear, lack, and low vibrations is going to get you there.
It's going to get you somewhere negatively faster. Some of the examples that I use that you can help you start to shift this lower energy is I do chakra mantras. I go through all of the chakras and I do the mantras and this helps balance out the energy. If you're in a place of survival. Say you're, it's hard for you to put food on the table or you're worried about gas prices. There's different mantras for each of the chakras. And so every day I will do anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour. So it's eee. for the crown chakra, the throat chakra is a, the heart chakra is o, the solar plexus is u, the lungs is a, the sacral is um, and the root is um.
With [00:12:00] my clients, I will help heal each one of these chakras maybe I will do a whole another podcast about that. I don't want to go into all that. Another thing that you want to start to think about is how do you dissolve your false self?
So again, we talked so much about being authentic. You must understand who you are authentically and what is the false self. Now, you can either do that intentionally with me, rapidly, you get a whole complete blueprint and we can go through and figure out exactly your distinct essence. Everything from your identity, what you're meant to do in the world, where your passion is, who your people are, the change you're meant to create as a leader, who you're meant to motivate and inspire, how you're meant to eat and move, the energetic sludge that might be bringing your vibration down.
Any kind of like anchor that's kind of pulling you down if you find that your vibration [00:13:00] kind of teeters and you're not so strong up here. You can do that intentionally with me and we move through it in a three month program together, one on one calls or You can continue your life is all about the lessons, and so you will be dripped these painful little lessons.
The more you learn the lessons and you move through them, the more you will begin to step into your authentic self, and you will start to vibrate higher, effortlessly and again, it's going to be dripped to you painfully, as a lot of you might be realizing, but the nice thing is that all of these lessons are your, opportunity to overcome these challenges and unlock mask the gifts that are within you right now. But for a lot of us, the only way we can really tap into these gifts,, is vibrating as high as we possibly like vibrating high. And at those lower energy ranges, that's where the challenge is an obstacle. Life is going to continue to bring you these same [00:14:00] challenges until you learn the lesson.
or you can work with a transformation embodiment coach and allow yourself to alchemize your dream body effortlessly and understand and begin to walk the path of your prosperity, your abundance, which is already encoded in your DNA. It's really up to you. Either way, it's gonna happen. What's meant for you is for you and everything that's happening around you.
So you might be finding this message because I am a part of your, what's called a fractal line. Everyone has specific people in their life that they're meant to help or are meant to help them. And it's very unique. It's like a, a very specific, code that each of us has. So the more we step into that authenticity, the more we vibrate at our highest, the more we begin to call these people in.
So maybe you're calling me in. And we want to create these boundaries. We need to create boundaries in our life. I talked more about this in the last [00:15:00] podcast, Harnessing Your Inner Magnetism Part One, where we talk about your identity is what creates these boundaries that allows you to understand for yourself consciously and subconsciously what is possible and what is not possible for you.
Allowing yourself to understand, dissolve the false self, step into who you truly are at your highest version, and release all that other stuff, including setting healthy boundaries. , boundaries isn't so much about other people, it's the boundaries for yourself. I want you to walk away from this understanding that.
It's so important for us to be able to surrender and know that everything is happening for us and we need to step into our highest version, our highest frequency so that we can unlock these gifts so that we can understand who we truly are, what our power is so that we can express who we are authentically so that we feel like we are The same [00:16:00] as what we feel on the inside as what we project to the outside, and so that we can call in the people, places and opportunities that are meant for us so that we can fully shine.
Because each of us has a unique way of radiating vitality, of expressing energy and finding our purpose. We are all so unique, but we are all so perfect, and as we move into this new era of 2027. This is your opportunity. So if you feel like you've been behind, if you feel like you're disconnected from your body, if you've been hard on yourself, and maybe you feel like you aren't fulfilling your true potential, that maybe you have been dimming your light and making yourself smaller and you feel a little
misguided, you feel somewhere inside of you that there is something bigger for you, that you're meant for more. I can guarantee that you are. If the desire is placed within you, the most important [00:17:00] thing that you can do to be authentic is follow your passion, follow your desire, because it will lead you to exactly where you need to be.
And for some of you, that led you right here to me, so I welcome you. My name is Melissa Valentine. If you have a desire, you know why you're here, that desire to feel fully aligned, self expressed, confident in your body, attract that abundance in the only way you can do it and you harness that inner magnetism.
So you just feel. So vibrant and alive and aligned, then you can definitely reach out to me. I will leave a link below if you want to see how you can work with me, or you can follow me on Instagram at dream body alchemist or Tick Tock dream body alchemy. Otherwise I will see you guys next Wednesday. Bye guys.
